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THE FINE LINE.

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Happy new month to you all ?. Hope January treated you well and that February will even be better. Today, the subject will be about crossing the line. There are very many boundaries that exist and sometimes things may seem almost ambiguous because the boundaries are not clearly defined or are barely visible. If someone crosses a boundary, they enter into another area. If the entry is not sunctioned, they can be accused of trespassing on another’s territory. We are human beings, social and free to interract. Frequent interraction is bound to bring friction at one point or another. One may infringe on the rights of another without their knowledge or for others it may be deliberate. In the end, it leaves the other person feeling resentful or hurt depending on the level of damage inflicted. This can lead to division in relationships if the differences are perceived as irreparable. This issue of emotional boundaries is tricky because they are abstract and dependent on an individual and their personality. It is an art learnt through practice. The more frequent the interraction with one, the more the opportunities for conflict and conflict resolution, the more you learn. It is a somewhat painful process that requires constant adjustment to maintain the relationship. That is probably why the more in-depth the relationship is, the higher the chances of conflict and reconciliation. The more you have those conflicts the better you learn someone and what buttons to avoid pressing in order to maintain peace. This is the adjustment seen in whatever relationships you look at: friends, family, marriage, between co – workers etc. Remember, we are only human and bound to make mistakes. Never beat yourself down when you make this mistake. Wake up, dust yourself, reconcile / forgive and forget; and move on. Life must continue.Nothing good can come from dwelling on past issues. Look foward to a better brighter tomorrow because God’s grace is sufficient for you.

Have a lovely week.

Kiria.

 

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